“Maybe I do believe it, all this ‘meant to be’ stuff. Why not believe? Really, who doesn’t want more romance in their life? Maybe it’s just up to us to make it happen, to show up and be ‘meant for each other’. At least that way you’ll find out for sure. Or not.”
“I Was Made For Loving You”
Grey’s Anatomy 9×07
Asking someone if they believe in soul mates is akin to asking them if they are a romantic or a cynic. It’s a romantic notion that there is one person out there in the world just for you. Why wouldn’t you want to believe in that?? (Well other than the depressing notion that you may never FIND THEM.) We’re told about the mythical “soul mate” from birth and taught that when you find each other that you will live happily ever after with no problems ever.
Well, we all know that’s not true. Relationships, even if they are the soul mate kind, take work. If you don’t care for them, if you don’t compromise for your partner every now and then, if you don’t communicate, then the relationship will die. That’s what many of the characters on Grey’s were dealing with tonight. We saw both the highs (Meredith and Derek, Callie and Arizona) and the lows (Cristina and Owen, Jackson and April) of relationships tonight as many of our characters pondered what it was like to be MFEO (also, can we discuss the fact that Meredith actually SAID “MFEO” in her voice over? SO SO far from her dark and twisty days!). Things will get pretty spoilery from here on out, so let’s put the rest of this recap behind a jump…
“It can be scary to find out you’ve been wrong about something but we can’t be afraid to change our minds, to accept that things are different, that they’ll never be the same, for better or for worse. We have to be willing to give up what we used to believe. The more we’re willing to accept what is and not what we thought, we’ll find ourselves exactly where we belong.”
Grey’s Anatomy 9×06
I have had SEVERE writer’s block in regards to this episode. In fact, I was gonna cry “THANKSGIVING!!” and totally skip it this week until I got an oh so subtly pushy email from my boyfriend this afternoon saying “But how am I going to know what happened on Grey’s Anatomy last week??”
Fine, fine, FINE. I can take a hint.
I think the reason I have been unable to even START a recap is the fact that this episode was ALL over the place. And I don’t mean that in a bad way. It’s an inevitability that in a sprawling ensemble drama there will be multiple story lines going on that are fighting to be considered the “A” plot. Usually it’s easy for me to pick out the “A” story to focus on in my recap, but this week proved troublesome. What was the main story?? Cristina’s triumphant return to Seattle Grace Mercy West? Alex buying Meredith’s House? The ongoing relationship drama between Jackson and April? Intern Jo’s arc with “Santa Claus” and her evolving sparks with Alex (that is SO ON btw)? Bailey pushing Arizona to come back to the hospital in the Bailey-est of ways? Callie’s ongoing guilt concerning Derek’s hand? Or the bombshell that the lawyers representing the plane crash victims plan on suing the HOSPITAL for what happened?
Yeah, I would have thought the last one would have been the “A” plot too, especially considering the fact that we are smack dab in the middle of November sweeps. But it all felt crammed into the last 5 minutes because the episode was SO overstuffed with story. So instead of my normal format of spending a few paragraphs of dissecting the “A” plot and then offering my random thoughts on other plot threads, I’m going to go straight to the random thoughts. That I am sure will become paragraphs.
– First things first. Cristina Yang is back where she belongs. FINALLY. What I loved about seeing Cristina back in the halls of SGMW is that we saw the Cristina we all knew and loved from earlier seasons. Brash. Aggressive. Snarky. And a damn fine doctor. Yet she isn’t EXACTLY the same. There is more of a softness and compassion to Cristina now. You saw this in the small smile when she overheard her interns “Happy” and “Dopey” (great callback to when she called her interns by numbers) saying how much they loved her after she said they could scrub in. The Cristina of a few seasons ago would have never reacted that way. I’m also curious to see how much of a free rein this new head of cardio gives her. I’m going to guess a pretty big one, as I don’t really see them adding yet another member to an already large recurring cast.
“Remember the Time”
Grey’s Anatomy 9 x 02
“This is a place where horrible things happen. You were right to go. You’re probably escaping disaster. Look at me. I practically grew up here, and you’re right, it’s hurt me in ways I’ll probably never get over. I have a lot of memories of people. People I’ve lost forever. But I have a lot of other memories too. This is the place where I fell in love. The place where I found my family. This is where I learned to be a doctor. Where I learned how to take responsibility for someone else’s life. And it’s the place where I met you. So I figure this place has given me as much as it’s taken away from me. I’ve lived here as much as I’ve survived here. It just depends on how I look at it. I’m gonna choose to look at it that way, and remember you that way. Hope you’re good. Bye.”
This week we flashed back to more of the immediate aftermath of the plane crash that ended Season 8 and it took us up to the events that happened in last week’s premiere. I thought the way they did it was fantastic. We only saw flashes of their time in the woods, and we saw the full picture through Cristina’s BRILLIANT monologue in the bathtub. That was all we needed. I saw everything that happened through her words and her glassy-eyed, dead inside, soulless delivery. I can’t get over the fact that Sandra Oh doesn’t have an Emmy for this role. It’s a travesty.