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Posted by Kim

Earlier this week Sage posted her Top 5 TV Boyfriends, so clearly I must do the same.  It’s funny, because as I was putting list together, I realized that I not only have a physical type when it comes to my TV boyfriends, I clearly have an emotional type as well.  All of these men are men who are SURE.  They are SURE in their love for their partner, even when they are not in a relationship with them.  Their love never wavers.  Clearly, that says something about me, but that analysis is probably better left to a shrink.

There is a quote from Grey’s Anatomy that sums all of these guys up:

I am sure. I am steady. And I know that I am a heart man. I take them apart and I put them back together and I hold them in my hands. I am a heart man. So this I am sure, you are my partner, my lover, my very best friend, my heart…my heart beats for you. And on this day, the day of our wedding, I promise you this: I promise you to lay my heart in the palm of your hands, I promise you me.

(Now, let’s IGNORE the fact that the above wedding didn’t actually happen.  That’s neither here nor there.)

So let’s take a look at these men who have given women everywhere incredibly unrealistic expectations for relationships, shall we?

1) Seeley Booth – Bones

I’m just gonna go ahead and quote Angela Montenegro here: “Booth is a big, strong, hot guy who wants to save your life. I mean, you actually have a knight in shining FBI standard-issue body armor, so cut him some slack.”

Enough said.  Next please.

Also I CANNOT with how he looks at Brennan.  Boreanaz has TRULY perfected the “I love you so much it physically hurts me” look, no?

And if that’s not enough, as we saw in last week’s episode, he puts on carnivals for sick children and wants to remain anonymous about it. *DIES*

2) Pacey Witter – Dawson’s Creek

Pacey Witter treads the line between TV Bad Boy that we love anyway (our post about THOSE is coming in the next few weeks) and perfect TV Boyfriend.  But come on.  HE BOUGHT JOEY A WALL (well…rented it.  BUT STILL).  He counted to ten before kissing her again just in case she wanted to stop him.  He “remembers everything”.  He named his boat “True Love” for Joey.  Basically, underneath all of his bravado, Pacey Witter was the world’s BIGGEST romantic.

Stop it.

Sure Pacey was very often self-destructive and plagued by feelings of unworthiness (UGH THE END OF SEASON FOUR).  He always had the best of intentions, but often messed up in trying to carry them out.  But his flaws are what made him perfect.  No matter what, no matter how badly he would muck things up, you always cheered for him and wanted him to be happy.  Even if it WAS with Joey Potter, who didn’t deserve his wonderfulness.

Yeah I said it.

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Community Thursday

Posted by Kim

“We’re together.  That makes this the perfect timeline.”

Two years ago my friend Tevy changed my life when he handed me the DVD of the first season of Community and said “Kim, I don’t know why you aren’t watching this show but you should be.”  Now, some people (though I doubt anyone who reads this blog) may think it is silly of me to say that a television show changed my life.  But it’s true.  Community unleashed the fangirl in me that had clearly been dying to get out, and I don’t regret letting her out for a SECOND.  She’s a big reason this blog even EXISTS.

I have loved a lot of shows in my lifetime.  The X-FilesFriends.  Lost.  How I Met Your MotherGrey’s Anatomy.  But little did I know what kind of love affair would launch when I started Community.  I devoured practically two seasons in a weekend (the first episode I ever watched live was Season Two’s “Applied Anthropology and Culinary Arts”).  I found things in each member of the Greendale Seven that I loved and related to.  Annie’s driven nature and competitiveness.  Britta’s needless defiance and desire to do the right thing, even if she is the worst at it.  Shirley’s desire to reinvent herself.  Troy’s innocence and joy in everything he does.  The way Abed sees everything through a pop culture lens because that’s how he relates to the world.  Jeff’s struggle between being the man he thinks he wants to be and the man he actually IS.  And even Pierce.  Pierce just wants to belong and feel relevant.  In fact, that is the common thread between all the members of the study group.  Community is at its heart a show about finding where you belong and finding people who love you, no matter how weird or damaged you are.  Isn’t that the very thing that all of us as Human Beings want?  To know that we are not alone in this world?

I may have been late to the Community party, but once I was there, I was all in.  I didn’t shut up about the show.  I wanted EVERYONE to know what I had discovered: that something about this strange little study group at the world’s wackiest Community college was incredibly special.  Sure, the show was hysterical, but underneath the metaness and movie parodies there beat a giant heart.  I will never understand why some people don’t SEE THAT when they watch the show.

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Pam and Brian the Boom Mic Guy

Posted by Kim

One of the things I love most about Sage is that I can text her my TV related thoughts (that are usually CAPSLOCKED) at anytime day or night.   So the following exchange is not at all unusual at 11:52 on a Friday night:

Me: First ep of The Office done. ENDING UNACCEPTABLE

Sage: GOD DAMN IT BRIAN.

Me: Like.  I can’t.  It’s stressing me out. STOP BLOWING HOLES IN MY SHIP.gif

(That’s right.  When I can’t USE gifs, I still talk in them.  I am a completely normal person, okay?)

But seriously.

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When a series is in the home stretch of its final season, it is inevitable that there will be some form of Eleventh Hour Drama.  Someone gets a job offer/opportunity to travel to Paris and has to decide whether to stay with her friends or to go and forge a new path.  Sometimes an ex-boyfriend comes back for the lead character after realizing that she’s been the one the whole time.  And he comes back for her in Paris.

But do you know why that drama worked on shows like Friends, Dawson’s Creek, and Sex and the City?  Because the drama surrounded on again/off again couples like Ross and Rachel, Carrie and Big, and the Pacey/Joey/Dawson triangle, and since those relationships were all unresolved at that point in the series, some drama was to be expected (if not demanded).  You didn’t see Friends throwing some sort of Hail Mary out of nowhere “is this relationship okay?” storyline with Monica and Chandler in the final season.  And that’s why I am more than a little perturbed at what The Office is doing with Jim and Pam this season.

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Me either, Erin.

One of the best things about The Office over the course of its nine-year run is the way the Jim and Pam relationship was handled.  Yes there was a good deal of pining and angst, but once they got together, they STAYED together.  And the relationship progressed naturally through dating, dealing with long distance for a time, getting engaged, married and then starting a family (though not QUITE in that order.  Which made it more realistic, quite honestly).  We never once doubted that Jim and Pam were a team.  Soul mates.  Madly in love with each other, even once they got through the ridiculous honeymoon phase.  Yes, as any normal couple would, they faced struggles.  But even then we never doubted that our beloved PB & J would ride off into the sunset together, with CeCe and Philip in tow at the end of the series.

Until now.

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